Baby, I'll drink your bath water!

Yes, yes...I have uttered those words to my husband. I mean I was feeling him and appreciating the love that I lost my mind for a minute and let those words come out of my mouth. I didn't think anything about it until my husband came inside all sweaty and dirty from working outside one day and said, "Are you ready to drink my bath water?" LMBO Don't get it twisted. We don't roll like that. LOL

Ok, let me tell you....the notion of drinking someone's bath water is disgusting yet many of us are taking big soapy--infected gulps of someone else's nasty bath water. Oh, I'm not literally talking about taking a drank..(I sho hope we don't have any bath drinkers in the house) but I'm talking about taking whatever someone dishes out to you just so you can say I got me a boo.. I mean you're willing to take the filth, dirt and waste from a man or a woman just to be with someone..just to be next to a warm body. Do you realize what's in bath water?????

Let's break this down.

Dirt
Grime
Human waste..Yes particles of feces and urine
Discharge
toxins
Just plain nasty stuff
Cold H2O
Free standing soapy water

Yet you want to drink it???

Come on...Just to be with someone, anyone...COME ON! Is it really worth the sip????

Just to be with someone, you are willing to be hit. *dirt* Just to be with someone, you are willing to get STDs from someone.*human waste* Just to be with someone, you are willing to be disgarded by that person and put on standby *discharge*. Just to be with someone, you are willing for them to continue to behave like a child and then you have the audacity to complain when they aren't acting like a grown man or a grown woman. *toxins*

Why should they when they got momma (you) or daddy (you) taking care of them?

Just to be with someone....you are willing to allow some joker to lay all up inside you or you lay all up inside someone just so they can get their release. *just plain nasty stuff*

Ask yourself these questions. What are you getting from this relationship? How is having this no good man or woman laying all up in your house or up in you benefiting you? Why do you continue to suffer abuse by this person?

Oh a person doesn't have to ever lay a hand on you to abuse you. It's called emotional and mental abuse. I'm so tired of women and men being manipulated by someone that refuses to see or appreciates their worth.

Why come we care so much about the welfare of others than our own welfare? If you don't have you, then who do you have? Your mental, emotional, physical and yes spiritual wellbeing is too important for ANYONE to have control over and mistreat. YOU are the face YOU see EACH morning. So, love that face and don't allow anyone to hurt it. I mean that...Protect you at all cost.

Again, you are certainly beautiful...God's finest! Too beautiful to be mistreated and abused. You know God isn't ignorant. He made these emotions and feelings that we have. He is not ignorant to what we feel, need or want. He knows our heart's desire and guess what??? He ONLY wants to give HIS children the best. HE WANTS YOU TO HAVE THE VERY BEST!!!

Believe that. So stop trying to fill a gap in your life by filling it with saw dust. Allow God to give you the finest and please.............

STOP DRINKING THE WATER!!!

~Cy~ 2009